“But when you are invited go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes he might say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher’ so that you will be honored in the presence of all who sit with you at the table.”                                                                       Luke 14:10 (RSV)

There are times in our lives where we want, hope, or long to be the center of attention… the head of the table. For some people this seems to be a daily goal. Come on – you know the type- the person who must get the best seat at every meeting, meal, or event. The person who makes his presence known as soon as he enters the room. The person who is always vying for position. I have done it. Haven’t you?

The verse highlighted here is one taken from the parable of the banquet table in Luke 14:1-14. I highly recommend reading the entire parable as it delivers a variety of messages. The message in this particular passage reminds us of the rewards of being humble. 

Just as we can recall the boisterous person, the one seeking recognition, I believe everyone knows a truly humble person that is held in high regard. The person who defines humility – giving of one’s self, never asking or expecting anything in return. The person who makes daily sacrifices for others.

This week my husband was celebrated for his 32 years in law enforcement as he retires. Through his career of service and sacrifice, he never sought recognition for his efforts. He didn’t make decisions based on popularity. He acted according to what is the right thing to do – even when it was the hard choice. He just wanted to do what is right. Not what is right in the eyes of people of power but what is right morally and ethically and spiritually. 

It has taken me years to learn the benefit of humility. To realize life is about others – serving others, being an example to others, giving up self for the good of the whole. It is the example Jesus set for us. You know, actually being humble not just acting humble. An act of humility is easy but being truly humble is a lifestyle not an event. 

Life is so much more rewarding when we are invited to a higher seat at the table than when we place ourselves there. We must take time to experience the joy of celebrating and lifting up others. Our own recognitions and rewards are fleeting but when we choose to put others first we are able to delight and take part in the rejoicing of many. How much sweeter then is our own accomplishment and recognition when we least expect it?

The next verse in the parable here is: 

“For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”    Luke 14:11

My husband enjoyed a successful career in law enforcement and I am so very proud to have been by his side through it all. When recognized for his accomplishments, he was humble and gracious as always. I know he will continue to work and live as a humble man of God and in doing so his ultimate exaltation will be for eternity at the Lord’s table.

Today, you are encouraged to humble yourself for the Lord. We are all called to sacrifice daily in terms of our time and energy. You are asked to give of yourself asking nothing in return. Allow God to work through you so that the accomplishments of your life are for Him and to His Glory.