Holy Week

“Then the governor’s soldiers took Jesus into the Praetorium and gathered the whole company of soldiers around him. They stripped him and put a scarlet robe on him, and then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on his head. They put a staff in his right hand. Then they knelt in front of him and mocked him. “Hail, king of the Jews!” they said. They spit on him, and took the staff and struck him on the head again and again. After they had mocked him, they took off the robe and put his own clothes on him. Then they led him away to crucify him.”  Matthew 27:27-31 (NIV)

As the season of Lent comes to a close, we are in the midst of Holy Week. 

This last week of Lent includes Palm Sunday (Jesus’ triumphal entry in Jerusalem), Holy or Spy Wednesday (betrayal of Jesus), Maundy Thursday (washing of the feet and the Last Supper of Jesus with His disciples), and Good Friday (Jesus’ crucifixion, or Passion of Christ). 

As I sat in church joyfully waving my palm branch and smiling at the children gleefully participating in the processional this past Sunday, I was overcome with the excitement of the season. I easily felt a small part of the happiness that filled all those who traveled great distances and cheered, “Hosanna in the highest!”

I began to think ahead to next Sunday – Easter Sunday. I was filled with excited anticipation of a church filled with those coming to celebrate our risen Lord. The new clothes, Easter dresses and suits with colorful ties, the children with baskets full of goodies, blooming lilies, the first signs of a Spring renewal. 

It is easy to enter and move through Holy Week focused on celebrating. Celebrating Jesus’ entry into the city and celebrating His resurrection. But, if you only focus on that – the good, happy parts – you are missing out. Holy Week to me is more about the way Jesus became ‘wholly weak’ by taking on and becoming the ultimate sacrifice for our sin. This is a time for us to focus on the emotional and physical struggle experienced by Jesus before we join to celebrate His resurrection on Easter Sunday morning.

We already know that Jesus came to Earth as a baby and grew into a man living and experiencing life as we do. He experienced loss, joy, hardship, and celebration. Yet, when we experience extreme emotional and physical pain we tend to think our affliction is far worse than what anyone can fathom. But, God can. He can because He sacrificed His only son who suffered the unfathomable in body and spirit. 

Matthew chapters 26 gives an account of Jesus’ time just before His arrest as He retreated to pray in the Garden of Gethsemane with three of His disciples. Matthew 26:36-37 reveals His great struggle, “… and [Jesus] began to be sorrowful and troubled. Then he said to [his disciples], ‘My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death …’” In chapter 27, after His arrest, we find Matthew’s account of the physical torment Jesus received leading up to the crucifixion. Stripped, beaten, spat upon, and mocked. 

Jesus became wholly weak … for you and me.

As we draw close to the cross on Good Friday and leave our savior in the tomb, make it a time of reflection on the sorrow and pain endured on your behalf. Think of your own sin and weakness, leaving it all at the foot of the cross where it belongs. Then, we can emerge together from the darkness into the light of the resurrected Lord this Easter Sunday morning.  

Traveling Light

(As we are out on an adventure today, I thought about this one for all of you soon to be Spring Break travelers … )

“The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything that I need.”    Psalm 23:1 (NCV)

In my life, I have been fortunate to be able to travel a good bit. Nothing very exotic and often not too far from home, but traveling nonetheless. 

As a young adult when I packed for a trip, I always over packed. If I was going to be gone for a week, I packed enough clothes for two weeks. I liked choices. I didn’t want to be caught unprepared for certain whether or a special occasion that might unfold along the way. 

Later as a young parent traveling with children, we would leave the drive way in a minivan piled high with anything and everything for the kids. I am not sure my husband could see out of the rearview mirror!

Growing older, and I like to think wiser, I began to realize how senseless this was. This packing to the extreme. I would come home from a trip and discover more clean clothes still in the suitcase than dirty ones worn on the trip. So, it finally clicked. It was useless for me to over pack. I didn’t need to plan for every “what if.”

As soon as I realized this, I began to leave a little more at home each time I traveled. Oh, I have taken baby steps … an item here and an item there left behind knowing I could really do without it. 

Now, I think I have truly mastered traveling light. Going to the beach? Throw a bathing suit, two t shirts, shorts, sunscreen and a toothbrush in a bag and I am out the door. An overnight trip to the mountains? Grab a jacket, a sweater, jeans, and a toothbrush (of course – always the toothbrush) and I’m gone.

One day I noticed the joy of traveling light. I was happily rolling along with one small suitcase and not struggling with 3 or 4 bags. It was truly liberating.

Now, if I could only do that in my daily life. 

I am the world’s worst at dragging along stuff I don’t need on a daily basis. I tend to leave home with extra baggage, physically and emotionally. I hold on to worries and woes, anxieties and personal drama. Then, I pack them up and tote them around as if I might need them for something. 

Don’t get me wrong – I understand we all accumulate extra baggage as we travel through life. We just don’t need to take it everywhere we go. There is a time and place to pull out and deal with some of those “things” in our life. There is also a time to start setting things aside and moving on without them. 

We are wise to realize this now and pack light on the days that we can to live in the moment. Don’t live each day in the regrets and consequences of the past or the worries and fears of the future. 

Live for today. Pack light for the trip at hand. Take along just what you need for today. As we read in today’s scripture, as long as you take Jesus on each trip you will have everything that you need. Even if you realize you left something behind, He will provide the right thing at the right time. 

Travel light with Jesus and you will feel better for it. (maybe take along a toothbrush, too!)

Long Hauls Only

“… and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.” Matthew 28:20 (KJV)

When traveling on the interstate, it seems there are more large trucks and tractor trailers than ever. To pass the time as a passenger, I find it interesting to read what is printed on them. I normally notice the company name and where they are from or perhaps where they are going among the friendly warnings strategically placed on the vehicle:

“Stay Back”

“Wide Right Turns”

“If you can’t see my mirrors, I can’t see you.”

I find them all pretty regular, mundane messages until I came across this printed across the back of a semi: 

“Long Hauls Only”

Interesting. Not a message I normally see. 

Makes sense though. That truck seemed built for a trek across the country not just a hop across town. I guess the company felt it necessary to advertise this so that people don’t waste their time trying to solicit their services for a short run. They are committed and focused on long distance. 

This is the message we read in Matthew chapter 28.  Jesus gave his disciples instruction and encouragement as He was sending them out to share his message saying, “Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world …” (Matthew 28:19-20, KJV) 

Even until the end of the world – the long haul.

This is also the promise God makes to us. His presence with us – always.

“Long Hauls Only”

God is with us for the long haul – the journey of our lifetime. Every day. Not just on the days or at the times we choose. 

Consider this, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16, NIV) 

Eternity – now, that’s a long haul!

Influencers

“Large crowds from Galilee, the Decapolis, Jerusalem, Judea and the region across the Jordan followed Him.”   Matthew 4:25

When I became a teacher (back in the 90s), I was told that I was preparing students for jobs that didn’t yet exist. As a school and system leader, I continued to pass that thought along. 

Now, here we are in the mid 2020s and it remains true. Not that I didn’t believe it all along – I just couldn’t imagine what those jobs would be. I told my son that all those hours on video games would amount to nothing. Who knew gaming could be a lucrative career? And what about Cloud Computing? We barely computed when I was growing up and now it’s in a Cloud! Other jobs too like virtual assistant, social media manager, app designer, Internet marketer, data miner, and digital marketing specialist did not exist 10 – 15 years ago. So many new professions – who knew?

Of all the new careers/jobs developed since I began teaching, there is one that surprises me the most. Influencer. I wasn’t even familiar with that term until a couple of years ago.

I remember the day I first heard this term clearly because my husband told me someone we know is an influencer and I had to ask what that meant. He told me there are people on social media who promote products, services, and ideas for different brands and have massive followings. Astounded, my response was, “They get paid for that?” Again, who knew?

Did you know …

                  The highest paid social media influencer gets $3.2 million per post.

                  Macro-influencers (100,000–500,000 followers) = $5,000–$10,000 per post.

                  There is a 9-year-old influencer with 501,000 Instagram followers. 

                  There is someone on Instagram with 537 million followers.

The average age of influencers is 27.

                  Influencer marketing is a category in company marketing budgets.

                  Many companies spend 40% of their marketing budget on Influencer Marketing.

All of this boggles my mind. Yet, I get it. 

On social media and in life, we tend to follow people that share our values and gain our trust. By working through these influencers – those with large followings – brands are capitalizing on the trust given to those people.

I read somewhere that Wedgewood is considered the original influencer (in the 18th century) as the potter gained popularity with relation to the royal family and the influence of Queen Charlotte. Another source cited “Mommy Bloggers” as the origin of Influencers as a profession. 

I disagree with both. 

Jesus Christ is the original Influencer. 

In Matthew 8:1 we read, “When Jesus came down from the mountainside, large crowds followed Him.” Further Matthew 19:2 states, “…and large crowds followed [Jesus] and He healed them.” He did all of this without the help of the Internet!

Yes, Jesus Christ is the original Influencer. He relates to the common person, gets results, instills hope, gains trust, and builds relationships. The ultimate influencer.

We all have influencers, and we can all be influencers. Influencers for Christ. 

As of 2021, there were approximately 2.4 billion followers of Christ (31.2% of the global population). I would say there is still some work left to do. 

Each time we open a social media app, we see those following us and those we are following. It is so easy to click the follow button and add another and another and …

Let’s remember who started it all and choose boldly to follow Him first and foremost all day, every day. But don’t stop there. Strive to be the person that others see Christ through – be an influencer for Him. You may not receive thousands or millions of dollars per post, but your reward will be greater no doubt!

Recognizing Jesus

“When the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were terrified, and said, ‘It is a ghost!’ And they cried out in fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, ‘Take courage, it is I; do not be afraid.’ Peter said to Him, ‘Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water.’ And He said, ‘Come!’ And Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But seeing the wind, he became frightened, and beginning to sink, he cried out, ‘Lord, save me!’ Immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and took hold of him, and said to him, ‘You of little faith, why did you doubt?’”             Matthew 14:26-31

Many years ago, I struggled with a decision about a job. Should I apply for that job posting? Is it the right thing to do for my family? Of course my husband and I talked about it and he was supportive in whatever I decided to do; but, I still struggled with whether or not to apply for it. It was a big deal. It would mean many changes for our family. 

As I continued to struggle with the idea, my husband questioned my hesitations. I shared with him that I had prayed about it but God just wasn’t answering my question. It was then that my husband made a profound statement that has stuck with me ever since. 

He said, “Well, He isn’t going to put it on a billboard, you know!”

But that is what I want. I need clear directions. The slap you in the face, anyone could see that kind of answers in my life. And most often that is not the form of the answers we get from God. 

So often I fail to recognize the answers to my prayers, my questions, my ponderings when they are right there. So often, like Peter, I fail to recognize Jesus when He is right in front of me. I fail to recognize Him just when I need Him most.

When do you recognize Jesus? Is it in the flowers blooming, leaves falling, or birds chirping? Is it in the clearly answered prayer, the sickness cured, a job gained, or a loved one returned home? That is when I see Him and he is oh, so clear then.

Somehow, I fail to see Him during the rain, in the aftermath of a deadly storm, or when immobilized by snow. I often don’t recognize Him when sickness claims a life, a job is lost, a prayer goes unanswered, or a loved one pushes me away.

In my heart, I know He is there. I just don’t see Him. 

Yes, most of us fail to recognize Jesus when He is right in front of us with outstretched arms trying to pull us closer. 

Just like the disciples, we think we see Him – but could it be?

We question and test Him.

How many times have you started a prayer like this: Lord, if you are really there then…Lord, just show me… Lord, if you let this happen then I will … 

We pray those prayers not realizing or not wanting to realize He is right there, walking on water, trying to reveal Himself to us.

We still want more. More proof. More reassurance before we believe our eyes. 

My prayer today is that I learn to recognize Jesus in all aspects of my life. That I learn to trust more each day in His plan for my life. 

Just think of how much we can add to our daily lives by recognizing Jesus first – in the calm and the storm. What a blessing to know He is always there. In the middle of it all.

I challenge you to recognize Jesus today – not just in nature or in those acts of kindness you see but in making that decision you have been putting off, in that difficult person you encounter, or during a difficult situation.

He is there – can’t you see Him?

“ When they got into the boat, the wind stopped. And those who were in the boat worshiped Him, saying, ‘You are certainly God’s Son!’”             Matthew 14:32-33 

Throw Another Log on the Fire

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”              2 Timothy 1:6-7 (NIV)

When the colder weather began to set in this year, my husband prepared by cutting, splitting, and stacking wood for our fireplace. I am so glad he did because one of my favorite things to do in the evenings is to sit next to a warm, cozy fire. 

There is talent to getting a good fire going and keeping it going. My husband has that talent … I do not. It seems to me one minute the fire is ablaze and then before you know it, the flames have become mere embers that need to be stirred to rekindle the flames. 

My husband will get a strong fire going and closely tend it  – constantly adding more wood or stoking it as needed. He also makes sure our supply of firewood is plentiful so he can keep the fire going all winter long.

On the occasion that he takes his focus away from the fire, I quickly to let him know when it begins to dwindle. As the flames start to diminish, I tell him to “throw another log on the fire.”

In 2 Timothy 1:6-7, Paul is writing to Timothy reminding him to rekindle the flame of God within him – to use his God-given talents. Just like those warm winter fires that I love, our talent and the flames of our faith can diminish or become “timid.” We need to remember to rekindle our spirit, so we don’t become dormant in our Christian service. 

As we learn in 2 Timothy, the Spirit of God gives us power. The power to be bold, not timid. We are meant to shine brightly in this world and to be diligent, tending to the flames of our faith. 

During this winter season, it is tempting to hibernate and become dormant. As you find yourself cozied up to a fire remember to “throw another log on the fire.” As you rekindle that physical fire, be sure to constantly “fan into flame [your] gift[s] of God.”

The world needs the warmth and glow of our Christian service now more than ever.

Grab Hold

“Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life.”          Proverbs 4:13 (NIV)

Today is Ash Wednesday – the beginning of Lent. During this time, I generally hear people talk about things they are “giving up” for Lent. Instead of giving something up, I think this is the best time to “Grab Hold.”

I have read several devotionals, articles, and books about letting go. All of them explain the benefits of releasing control or moving on from thoughts that drag you down. People have written volumes about letting your children go, letting the anger go, letting go of resentment, and even letting go of the weight. There are also the old clichés: “If you love something set it free … Let go and let God … Don’t worry. Be happy.”

The “experts” make it sound so easy, but for me letting go has never been easy. I picture letting go as giving up, forfeiting my control (I hate to feel out of control), and careless. To me, it is like riding a bike and taking my hands off the handle bars, throwing my arms in the air, and saying, “Hey, guys look at me!” Do you know how dangerous that is?

I believe holding on to things is synonymous with safety and security. Even if I don’t like the circumstances or situation at least I know what is going on and I can try to do something about it. I can try to fix it or at the very least worry about it until it fixes itself!

Deep down I know letting go can be a very good thing in many instances. Yet, I just can’t do it. I am much better at holding on. 

For me, a better life, a more content life, a more Godly life is all about holding on. 

Holding on to God.

As soon as I realized I was holding on to the wrong things in my life and I began to shift my grip to grab hold of God, my life was transformed. I became more carefree, more content, more relaxed. (Yes, this is me … relaxed.)

It has been a slow process – a gradual release of other things in my life – but I definitely feel the positive effects!

To grab hold of God, I had to let go of those other things I had obsessed and worried over for years. I couldn’t let go of everything at once, but the tighter my grip on God became, the more I felt the burdens in my life slip slowly away. I almost didn’t realize what was happening until I noticed I was waking up happier, walking a little taller, and treating others around me with more compassion. 

I found when I focus on God, He takes care of the rest. He equips me with the strength I need to handle difficult situations and the knowledge I need to determine when to step back and let Him work it out for me. 

I have learned that holding on is not a bad thing as long as you grab hold of the right thing – God!

My advice to those having trouble letting go is this: 

Grab hold of God and He will change your life!

(**and always keep your hands on the handle bars too!)

 “Not that I have already obtained all of this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.”   Philippians 3:12

Running on Empty

…while he [Elijah] himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. ‘I have had enough, Lord,’ he said. ‘Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.’ Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. All at once an angel touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat.’ He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals, and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again. The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.’ So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he traveled forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God.”                   1 Kings 19:4-8 (NIV)

Beginning of week  …  360+ miles to empty, tank is full

Mid-week …  180 miles to empty, basically half full (not half empty, right?)

Almost the weekend …  Ding! 50 miles to empty, how did that get so low so fast?

 Must remember to stop at my preferred gas station (because not just any gas station will do)

Next day  … 20 miles to empty, Oops … I forgot to stop

Beginning to sweat – I think I can make it to my exit 

Minutes later  …  5 miles to empty, Oh, my …

 Gripping the steering wheel tightly I pray to make it through  the next traffic light

Whew .. made it!

Tank is full – I’ll never let that happen again! (Yeah, right …)

Has this ever happened to you? I must admit. I am the world’s worst at keeping my car filled with gas – just ask my husband. This scenario is way too familiar to me. 

I remember when I was just starting out as a young driver, I didn’t let the gas gauge drop below ½ tank. As I became a more experienced driver and got to know my car better, I began to get a little braver – I let the gauge dip lower and lower before taking time to stop for a fill up. 

As an adult, I have gotten even more lax. Since my car has the digital ‘miles to empty’ readily available and displayed, I really push the limit. When I hear the sound and the light comes on at 50 miles until empty, I find myself looking at the gauge thinking, “I’m only going 20 -30 miles today. I can get gas tomorrow.” This habit inevitably leaves me running on empty … again. I’ve even coasted into the gas station with 0 miles to go. Not good, I know … 

A friend recently shared that her gas gauge is not registering correctly leaving her stranded on not 1 but 2 occasions when she thought she had ¼ of a tank of gas to go. Yikes! Now she stops and tops off the tank regularly – not letting it get low at all.

I should get into a better habit like her. Not just in my car where I test the limit or find myself running low on gas, but in my Christian walk as well. 

How about you? Do you ever find yourself running on empty in life?

Maybe you can relate to Elijah. In the scripture, Elijah is running on empty. He pushes his limits and finds himself in the wilderness ready to give it all up, believing he is no better than the rest. His situation is so extreme he is praying for death.

Thankfully, Elijah is visited by an angel – not once but twice– and he is provided with bread and water. The angel tells Elijah to eat and drink because “the journey is too much for [him].” Once Elijah is refreshed and strengthened by the provisions, he is able to make the full pilgrimage. Forty days and forty nights to reach the Mountain of God. No more running on empty.

As a Christian, how often are you running on empty?

How often do you put off reading the Bible, attending worship, or participating in a Bible study or prayer group? Do you neglect your own spiritual growth? You are probably thinking you don’t have time for that today but there will be time later. When does later come – when you’re running on empty? 

We can be so quick to put aside our Christian fellowship and worship for other ‘more important’ things not recognizing the need to keep our spiritual tank filled until it’s too late. 

Remember this journey is too much for you. 

Let this be your reminder to stay strengthened and filled by God. Keep your tank filled. Don’t just look for God or coast into church when you’re running on empty. 

Top off your tank regularly keeping God by your side for the journey ahead!

Know – Know

“They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.”      Titus 1:16 (NIV)

When we first started our family and began to raise children, my husband and I found ourselves saying “No, No” quite a bit. We caught ourselves doing this so much with one of our children that we started calling the child Little Baby No No.

No, No – Don’t touch.  

No, No – Don’t put that in your mouth. 

No, No – Don’t use markers on the wall.

No, No – Don’t interrupt.  

Over time, we took the disobedience and the ultimate questioning personally as if the children were testing us and making us say No – treating us like the bad guy.

No – you can’t snack an hour before dinner. Why?

No – you can’t wear that. Why?

No – you can’t stay out after 10. Why?

No – you can’t go home with that person after school. Why?

Shamefully, the answer to why was often, “Because I said so. That’s why.”

As the children grew older and wiser, so did we. As parents, we understood that the No was nothing more than a negative response without a foundation.

Our growing children wanted to know more about the why and we needed to provide it.

Part of human growth and development is learning discernment. How can we expect children to learn to make good choices for themselves if we don’t give them the knowledge and logic behind those choices?

Our relationship with God is the same. We have the Ten Commandments with the Thou Shalt Nots and an entire collection of books in the Old Testament portion of the Bible, which contain more rules and don’ts. As times have changed over these last 2000 plus years, some of those old No No’s are tested and we begin to question – just like our children. 

We are children of God so questioning is natural. It is part of our Christian growth. God prepared for these times, for our why’s – much better than I prepared for the bigger questions my adult children have thrown my way.

He is not a “Because I said so kind of God.” 

He wants us to know why; therefore, God has given us Know Knows – so to speak. He outlined the hard No’s – His nonnegotiables – but He also left us with volumes of the Knows, knowledge and understanding for the ages. 

We all experience growing pains. Some when we are younger and more when we are older. For this, God equips us explaining the why so we can learn and practice discernment.

Here is my list of God’s Know Knows:

Know Worry. Know God.      Matthew 6:32-34

Only people who don’t know God are always worrying about such things. Your Father in heaven knows that you need all of these. But more than anything else, put God’s work first and do what he wants. Then the other things will be yours as well. Don’t worry about tomorrow. It will take care of itself. You have enough to worry about today.”

Know Love. Know God.          1 John 4:7-8

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” 

Know Grace and Peace. Know God. 2 Peter 1:2-3

“Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.”

Know Contentment and Strength. Know God.         Philippians 4:11-13

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

Know Faith. Know God.         Ephesians 2:8

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—”

Know Salvation. Know God.              Romans 10:9

“If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”

Know Eternal Life. Know God.           John 3:16

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

Many times in our life we hear No, No. Sometimes it comes from God. Remember this doesn’t have to be negative. Focus on God’s Know Knows which give you a strong foundation of knowledge and wisdom to continue to grow and walk in His way. 

Dear Lord,

Thank you for providing me with direction for the days ahead. I am appreciative of your patience as I learn – sometimes the hard way – and continue to grow in knowledge of You learning the plans You have for my life. I long to be Your little baby Know-Know in the days ahead. 

Amen.

Rainy Days and Mondays

(Today it is raining where I am, which is what brought this to mind. Sorry this post is a little later than usual – I hope that means it is right on time for you!)

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.”                       Romans 15:13

Recently, I was listening to a radio station celebrating throwback Thursday by playing songs from the 1970s. Enjoying some of the songs from my past, I kept listening and singing along to some of the upbeat tunes I remember from that time. The mood suddenly switched when the melancholy sounds of a 1971 song by The Carpenters began to play, Rainy Days and Mondays.

On that day, I felt a connection with some of the lyrics*:

Talkin’ to myself and feelin’ old
Sometimes I’d like to quit
Nothin’ ever seems to fit
Hangin’ around
Nothin’ to do but frown
Rainy days and Mondays always get me down …

At some point while listening, I let out a big sigh and said out loud, “It’s not just Mondays that can get you down and today it isn’t raining.” I couldn’t put my finger on it, but I had run out of joy and it was only 7:45 a.m. I tried to pinpoint what had gone wrong that week to identify what was getting me down.

I had let a momentary circumstance drain me of my joy leaving me empty. Thankfully, before I could spiral too far into the pit of despair that I was digging for myself, I realized I am the one who controls what fills the space in my soul. I can let temporary situations fill me with gloom or choose to be filled with joy to the point of overflowing. 

To literally turn my frown upside down, I tuned in to a different radio station – one with all Christian music. It didn’t take long for my internal gauge of joy to go from empty to half full (not half empty) and ultimately on its way to overflowing. Knowing that the God of hope is my redeemer and sustainer of truth gives me joy and peace all of the days of my life. 

Not just on the sunny days or each day that isn’t a Monday. Every day.

Because I have the joy and peace only He can give, I can abound in hope. That doesn’t mean I get by with just enough hope. I will thrive and flourish because the God of hope provides all that is needed for a better day, a better tomorrow, a better circumstance. 

The next time you feel melancholy, like you need to quit or if nothing seems to fit, reclaim your joy by turning to the One who will fill you with all the joy and peace you need. 

Dear Lord,

Forgive me for letting life get the best of me and allowing myself to be drained of the joy and peace that you so freely give. When I feel there is nothing else, there is hope – eternal hope in You. Where there is hope, there are infinite possibilities. Thank you for restoring my joy.

Amen.

*Source: LyricFind      Songwriters: Paul H. Williams / Roger S. Nichols.      Rainy Days and Mondays lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group